The important thing to learn in life; Be independant. Dont ever think you're the most important. There are other more important things to other people than you. No matter what condition you're in. There is no rule or law to have to be you always. Even theres someone in the same condition as you who might not seem to be so important, people can still go to that someone and not you. Its a natural reaction; and this shows who really cares, and who really not.